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šŸŒŖļø When Everything Feels Important, Where Do You Start? Finding Your Sphere of Change in a World of Overwhelm

When everything feels urgent, how do you decide where to focus?

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Would you be surprised if I told you that, since the inauguration, Iā€™ve spent several hours every week hopping from call to call, desperately seeking reassurance from like-minded communitiesā€”like someone in recovery on the brink of relapse, looking for a meeting?

Probably Not.

One of the impactful meetings I attended was with the Cooperative Economics Alliance of New York City (CEANYC). It is a space where I continue to learn and witness firsthand what it means to build economic systems that actively resist the extractive dynamics of traditional, mainstream business models.

The gathering was a call to actionā€”a deep dive into what it truly means to operate as a cooperative business in todayā€™s political and economic climate. And letā€™s be clear: the current climate ( makes me yearn for the aliens to invade) is chaotic, uncertain, and terrifying.

As a Haitian American, my family and I are copying important documents and receiving calls about parents pulling their kids out of school and quitting their jobs. Building help networks and letting folks know their rights. ITā€™S REAL OVER HERE.

The conversation was equal parts encouragement and reality check, a reminder of both the potential and the challenges of coming down the pipeline.

As I listened to cooperative owners and members share their stories, I was struck by their resilience and their almost ruthless ability to prioritize with love. It wasnā€™t just about saying no to distractions; it was about saying yes to what truly mattered, even when it was hard.

When everything feels urgent, how do you decide where to focus? Iā€™ve been asking myself this question a lot lately. Between climate crises, political chaos, and the relentless demands of running a business, itā€™s easy to feel paralyzed.

So how do we choose what action looks like for us? How do we battle the fight, flight, and freeze responses flooding our bodies?

But hereā€™s what Iā€™m learning: clarity comes from boundaries. By mapping my ā€œspheres of influenceā€ā€”what I can control, what I can shape, and where I can contribute to systemic changeā€”Iā€™ve found a way to move forward without burning out.

  1. Control: What can I directly change in my daily life?

  2. Influence: How can I shape my community or workplace?

  3. Change: Where can I contribute to systemic shifts?

Control ( Where My Daily Choices Become My Compass) In the smallest momentsā€”how I run meetings, respond to setbacks, or structure my toolsā€”Iā€™m planting flags of integrity.

For example, Iā€™ve started replacing Big Tech tools with open-source alternatives ( check them out below) (control), joined a platform co-op to democratize my work (influence), and donated to movements reimagining ownership models (change)

Influence (Building Networks That Make Me More Myself)

Iā€™ve stopped chasing ā€œstrategic partnershipsā€ and started cultivating relationships that feel like creative kinship.

Change ( Letting Constraints Reveal My Non-Negotiables: When resources tighten, I ask, What if scarcity is my most honest advisor?)

Though my work is primarily around business design and innovation, the lens through which I do that work (inclusion) has been villanized to the point of national tragedy. I have to be prepared to potentially wave through a season of scarcity and go to the other side. But what if I treat scarcity as an opportunity to radically prioritize what I and OPENHOUSE need right now?

Itā€™s not perfect, nor has it removed my need to doom scroll but itā€™s helped me understand the areas where I need to rally.

 šŸŒ Resources to Reclaim Agency: Tools, Tech, and Community | Curated links to help you work differently, build better systems, and feel less alone 

šŸ”§ Control Your Tools  

LocalSend āž”ļø

Share files across devices without Big Tech middlemen.  Itā€™s open-source, privacy-first, and ad-free. 

Passbolt āž”ļø
An open-source password manager for teams.
Its self-hosted security lets you ditch surveillance capitalismā€™s ā€œfreeā€ tools.

Lunatask āž”ļø
Encrypted to-do lists + mental well-being tracking.
Itā€™s tech that serves you, not advertisers.

Home Assistant āž”ļø
Open-source home automation with local control.
Tech infrastructure doesnā€™t require surrendering to Amazon or Google.

šŸ¤ Building with Your Community

How to Build a Village āž”ļø
A practical guide to meaningful community-building.
Why it matters: ā€œWeā€™re bad at building community because weā€™ve outsourced it to apps. Hereā€™s how to fix that.ā€

Free Our Feeds āž”ļø
Decentralize social media and break billionaire control.
Imagine if our digital spaces were owned by the users. This is how we start.

Platform Co-ops 101 āž”ļø
When most people think of co-ops, we think of building grocery stores but platform cooperatives are opportunities to change the way we build tech-based businesses.

 šŸŒ Articles & Links for a Way Forward: Actions to stand in solidarity

Immigration Raids | Know Your Rights āž”ļø
From knowing your constitutional rights to a rapid response toolkit, this document put together with the help of the National Immigration legal services gives you a link to A document that

How to start an ICE Watch neighborhood  āž”ļø
This op-ed in Teen Vogue by We Fight For Us shares what itā€™s like to start an ICE neighborhood watch and you can too.

 šŸŒ In-House News

What's bringing me joy is bringing back my pre-speaking rituals of dance parties! Like this one before delivering a keynote on 'What is Inclusive Innovation?' for some of the team at Bausch & Lombā€”and this was the song making it happen.

A takeaway from that talk that I want to leave you with is the myth about ā€œlate adoption.ā€ What if late adoption isnā€™t about resistant users but early warning systems for bad innovation?