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Stop Treating AI Like Thanos | Tough AI Decisions I’m Making for My Business | And a New AI Friend is for Sale
Stop Treating AI Like Thanos | Tough AI Decisions I’m Making for My Business | And a New AI Friend is for Sale

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In this edition: Stop Treating AI Like Thanos | Tough AI Decisions I’m Making for My Business | And a New AI Friend is for Sale
Why We Need to Stop Treating AI Like Thanos

Remember that chilling moment in "Avengers: Endgame" when Thanos declared, "I am inevitable"? It wasn't just his plan to wipe out half of all life that was terrifying—it was the certainty with which he said it. That unshakeable belief that his actions were unavoidable, no matter what Earth's mightiest heroes did to stop him.
Sound familiar? It should be because we're falling into the same trap with artificial intelligence.
The AI Inevitability Trap
There's a sneaky little mind trick called the "fallacy of technological inevitability" that's got us all twisted up when it comes to AI. We've become so caught up in debating whether AI will exist and how it'll change the world that we've started to believe we have no control over how it's used.
It's like we're all collectively throwing up our hands and saying, "Well, I guess the robots are taking over. Might as well get used to it!"
But here's the thing: Just because a technology exists doesn't mean we have to use it in ways that make us uncomfortable or go against our values.
Breaking Free from the AI Hype Cycle
The powers that be—tech giants, futurists, and even some well-meaning experts—have been pushing this narrative of AI inevitability. They tell us it's only a matter of time before AI is:
- Checking our biometrics 👁️
- Taking over human jobs 🧑🦰
- Running every aspect of our businesses 🤖
And sure, some of that might happen. But that doesn't mean we have to passively accept every AI application that comes our way.
Your Personal AI Ethics Compass
While the big conversations about AI's impact on society are important, it's equally crucial to develop your own ethical compass when it comes to this technology.
Here's how to start:
Question everything: Just because an AI solution exists doesn't mean you have to use it. Ask yourself if it aligns with your values.
Educate yourself: Learn about AI's potential benefits and risks in different contexts (key word context) and support ethical AI initiatives. I am allocating a portion of my resources to ongoing AI education, not just for myself but also for my team and community. That means looking for companies and organizations prioritizing responsible AI development, particularly those led by underrepresented (most negatively impacted) groups in tech.
Set boundaries: Decide what you're comfortable with and stick to it, even if it means going against the trend.
I have made two tough decisions about the use of AI in my business:
🛑 No AI-generated BIPOC images for marketing. We're already seeing AI reinforce harmful stereotypes (like associating youth in house arrest solely with Black kids) and companies using AI to fake diversity. I'm drawing the line as a small agency: no AI-recreated BIPOC images to sell or market products. Real representation matters.
🛑 Introducing 'AI Dark Hours': As a founder with ADHD, AI has revolutionized my approach to tackling the blank page problem. However, I cannot overlook the environmental consequences. Climate change will disproportionately affect marginalized communities, and as a Caribbean daughter, the threat of rising sea levels is deeply personal. To mitigate my carbon footprint, I am dedicating specific AI-free work hours.
Remember, we're not facing an all-powerful, universe-altering villain like Thanos. AI is a tool created by humans, and we have the power to shape how it's used.
🌍 Spotlight: Forces for good in AI tech
GLITCH With Kamala (Comma,La) Harris as the nominee, the issue of misogynoir in elections has been on my mind more than ever. Glitch is doing incredible work to combat online abuse of Black women and all marginalized groups.
If you haven't already, check out their eye-opening report: 'The Digital Misogynoir Report: Ending the dehumanising of Black women on social media'. Find it here:
But Glitch isn't stopping there! After their pivotal role in advocating for the UK Online Safety Bill, they're pushing forward with even more solutions to Black women's online challenges.
Between you and me, I might have some inside scoop on what's coming next.😉
Data for Black Lives is a movement of activists, organizers, and scientists committed to the mission of using data to create concrete and measurable change in the lives of Black people.
The Algorithmic Justice League (on theme here), raise awareness about the impacts of AI, equip advocates with empirical research, build the voice and choice of the most impacted communities, and galvanize researchers, policymakers, and industry practitioners to mitigate AI harms and biases.
AI4All is a US-based nonprofit dedicated to increasing diversity and inclusion in AI education, research, development, and policy.
Voices We Are Following
Ruha Benjamin an incredible researcher and advocate on the relationship between innovation and inequity, knowledge and power, race and citizenship, health and justice.
Safiya Noble a professor and author of best-selling book on racist and sexist algorithmic harm in commercial search engines, Algorithms of Oppression: How Search Engines Reinforce Racism
Professor Casey Fiesler, PhD, JD is an information scientist, tech ethicist, and internet enthusiast based at University of Colorado Boulder. She has compiled a list of over 1000 articles on AI ethics and policy news that is regualry updated.
🌈 Links to Weird Up Your Day 🌈
Microsoft Bizarre CommercialMicrosofts latest commercial promoting Gemini has more than missed the mark. It proposes that a father wants to use AI to help his daughter to write a heartfelt letter to her Olympic hero. Who wants that? |
It’s getting weird..er. A wearable friend AI device is comingAllegedly, a founder spent 1.8 million dollars to purchase friend.com, which displays a wearable AI device for your neck called Friend. If you weren’t concerned before, their promotional video's slight horror film vibe should do it for you. |
There’s an AI beauty pageant, folks. Not Even AI is safe from the male gaze 😂AI personalities that double as creators online have been entered into a pageant. Contestants will be judged on their beauty, tech, and clout for the chance to earn the Miss AI crown. |
🌍 In-House News
We just added some new Work Stories to the site.
We recently partnered with a major Caregiving company to revolutionize support for the unseen heroes of healthcare. You can read about the research process and the project's highlights here. Our goal is to center the wisdom of caregivers, especially those pushed to the margins.
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